Sometimes in life ~

A friend who supposedly is a Mr./Ms. Clean drops in and your room is in a complete mess (My room is always in a complete mess [wink]). You don’t need to feel embarrassed about it. Those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter… [GRIN] Let the other person know that you have more to do in life than just keeping your room spotless all the time. Sometimes the things scattered around can spurt the creativity in you to do the unusual which otherwise is impossible!

Laugh out loud. Spurt! Clap your hands. Crack a stupid joke. Act immature and childish. It’s just perfect to feel like a kid. It’s only a feel good factor.

“Blame it on ghlerin, gastrin, orexin, obestatin, TSH, relaxin, cortisol, testosterone, adrenalin or just wat eva”!! It’s only but natural to blame it on the hormones. You sometimes are just NOT responsible for the actions you put up!

Just because somebody doesn’t think as you do, doesn’t mean he or she doesn’t deserve to be your friend. What’s the fun if you find roomful of your clones? You wouldn’t like it if you find every other mouth speaking the same lines, isn’t it? All of us are meant to be different. That’s how we are designed by God. It’s nice to have a debate (as long as it’s healthy and it doesn’t lead to any bitterness). Step in the other person’s shoes. Who knows what you discover?

You go for an interview and realize your nails are undone! Hellooo dude(tte), sometimes there’s just not time for it all. Isn’t it? And after all its me who will be working for you… not my nails!

It’s okay to pronounce words wrongly or speak a bad tongue. After all you learn when you make mistakes. Trying is what sets you apart. Nobody is born genius, after all!

Don’t be too bothered about how you arrange and use the cutlery displayed on the table in a restaurant. I accept possessing such finesse is appreciated but sometimes your fingers could give a very satiable feeling! Try it. Just use your hand and lick your fingers at the end. I bet, the taste shall linger for days [Wink]

Let’s say, you have a friend over a cup of coffee or you have been friends with someone for a long time now and you decide to set out for lunch. In the course, if you by chance spill coffee or 2 grains of rice on the table, mind it, it’s just ok. You don’t need to feel sorry about it. It’s ok. Some actions are involuntary.


Eat just wat eva is on the kitchen slab or straight from the fridge even if your microwave is working. Sometimes, you just feel that hungry. It’s perfectly human.

Ask for doggie bags in a restaurant if you have ordered too much. Hunger pangs cannot be measured!

Go out for a party or elsewhere with an unwashed hair. You never really got time…. So what? Just tie it up casually and you are done. Don’t look concerned. [Teethed smile]

Its fine to trip when you are wearing your pointed heels. Don’t feel embarrassed and look around. Everyone does trip at some point or the other in their lives.


It’s nice to pamper and splurge on yourself. Do not ruminate your thoughts on this, post a relaxing indulgence.

Well…. The list could go on……………………..

If you have nodded your head for anything listed above, then you exactly know what I mean. Ladies and gentlemen, it’s time to get out of the “self-sabotage” image. You don’t need to be adept at it. We are not contesting in a Miss/Mr./Mrs. Congeniality!! Having said that, don’t make things very obvious. It’s time now to stop playing the self-blame game. Just learn the trick to handle those squirm-inducing situations…. Remember that mistakes only occur, not recur! [Wink] Anyways, don’t take life very seriously. Take yourself light so that the journey is smooth. Let not such petty things bother you much. It’s good to forgive yourself and others. Practice saying “Sorry” and “thank you” all the time. It doesn’t take much. For the big things you always do that, but it’s the small things that really matter in the long run. Don’t you think?